Only Blueprint for designing your Dream life.
A truth and blueprint you need for next 30 day.
Most people live life like a blindfolded driver—just reacting, guessing, hoping they don’t crash.
They wake up, scroll through their phones, do what’s expected, and call it a day. And they wonder why life feels stuck. Why every day feels the same.
But what if designing your dream life was as simple as following a blueprint?
A roadmap that actually works—step by step, like leveling up in a game.
Sounds amazing, right? If only life were that clear-cut.
The reality?
Most of us learn the hard way. Trial and error. Millions of bad decisions.
You know, the average person makes 35,000 choices a day—and if even a fraction are mistakes, that’s hundreds of thousands of missteps every year.
But what if you could skip the worst mistakes by learning from those who’ve already been through them?
I wasted years doing what I thought was right. School, A+ grades, getting a tutoring job at 16, a “safe” career. Until I hit a wall.
A moment of what the hell am I even doing? That’s where real transformation begins.
Step 1: Recognizing When You’re Lost
Since my childhood, I watched people around me follow the same script: Study, get a degree, land a job, work till you retire.
Sounded safe. Sounded secure. So I did the same.
Last month, I completed my final exams, and due to my academic performance, I got a job from my own school to teach English. Even though I don't have a degree, they offered it to me—but at a lower salary.
I accepted the offer because I needed it so badly.
One month in, I realized why a 9-5 sucks. Maybe it’s not that bad for you, but oh man, I can't handle it...
The routine, the expectations, the lack of control over my own life. I was stuck in a life I didn’t want to live.
Most people feel this at some point. That’s probably why you’re reading this in the first place.
That feeling of something’s off, but you don’t know what.
That’s the moment you need to listen to yourself. Because if you don’t, life will force you to listen—with burnout, regret, or a wake-up call that’s way harder than it needs to be.
Ask yourself: What do I actually want? Not what society wants. Not what your parents expect. What do you want?
For me, the answer was simple: Freedom. Control over my time, my work, my choices. Not being trapped in a repeated loop that felt like a slow death.
Step 2: Assume Control
Mark Twain said, “Most men die at 27. We just bury them at 72.” And he was right. Most people stop living the moment they settle.
They give up control, follow the script, and coast through life on autopilot.
But here’s the truth: No one is coming to save you. No mentor, no lucky break, no perfect opportunity. If you don’t take control of your life, someone else will.
A father once told me: Your life is just a reflection of your standards.
If you’re stuck in a job you hate, it’s because you’ve accepted it. If you’re surrounded by the wrong people, it’s because you’ve tolerated it. The moment you set higher standards—for your time, your energy, your environment—everything changes.
The key? Focus only on what you can control. Forget the noise, the setbacks, the excuses.
Just ask yourself:
Is this important?
Can I control this?
What actions can I take right now to change it?
Your future isn’t built by thinking about what’s possible. It’s built by doing what’s necessary—every single day.
Step 3: Build a Habit of Reflection
Ray Dalio said it best: “Pain + Reflection = Progress.”
A life without reflection is a life without direction. – Sid
Because if you don't stop to reflect, you won’t be able to understand where your life is actually leading you.
Most people go through life repeating the same mistakes—because they never stop to reflect. They keep chasing goals that don’t excite them.
They keep ignoring the gut feeling telling them to pivot.
I used to think success was just about getting rich.
So, I chased it. I built online businesses, hustled offline, tried every option, and worked non-stop.
But every time I “succeeded” in anything I was doing, something felt off.
Like I was climbing a ladder, only to realize it was leaning against the wrong wall.
Then I started journaling. Reflecting. Asking real questions:
What tasks make me lose track of time?
What drains my energy?
What excites me the most?
Who are the people that push me forward?
The more I asked, the clearer things became. Reflection forces you to see what’s working—and what’s not.
It's how you correct yourself before wasting years going in the wrong direction.
Step 4: Visualize Your Future
A few days ago, I spent a week alone—no distractions, no social media, just thinking. And for the first time, I had clarity.
I saw the life I wanted. A life where I worked on things that mattered, with people I respected, in places I loved.
No rushing. No burnout. Just a system that let me thrive.
A vision board isn’t just some Pinterest fantasy. It’s a strategy. It gives you:
Clarity (So you know where you’re going)
Inspiration (So you stay driven through setbacks)
Alignment (So you stop chasing what doesn’t matter)
If you don’t design your future, society will do it for you.
The Time is Now
Most people wait. They say, “Maybe tomorrow.” “Maybe next month.” “Maybe next year.” “Maybe when I’m ready.”
But there’s no perfect moment. No magic sign. Just a choice.
Your dream life won’t build itself.
It starts with ownership. It starts with reflection, vision, and action.
So ask yourself: What are you waiting for?
P.S. Whenever you're ready, there are 2 way I can help you:
#1: If you want learn more about my “FREE Creator Blueprint” and how to build a perfect substack newsletter, reply “FREE”.
#2: Book a Free 1-1 call with me. I will help you with your current problem you're facing in your creator business, and give you access to my paid templates fro FREE.